Lately, I’ve been getting requests from two types of couples: ones with wedding dates in mid to late 2021, and ones who are holding their fall 2020 wedding dates. Normally I would not want to start a custom design only three to four months before the wedding date. There’s a lot of time that goes into a custom design, such as several rounds of revisions, email correspondences on proofs, production/shipping time, assembly, etc.

But I get it. If you’re worried your wedding will be postponed or that you’ll have to slash the guest list, then you’re hesitant to spend money on invitations that may end up null and void.

While I don’t advise waiting until the last minute, the events of 2020 make it understandable. But how long of a wait is TOO long? Grab a calendar and let’s talk.

If you choose this route, you should allow a minimum of 4 weeks for DESIGN TIME ONLY, although 6 is ideal. Of course, check your stationer’s availability, as their estimation may be different. There are also a few things you can do to keep the process moving. 

1. At your first meeting with your designer, be prepared with ample inspiration from online wedding resources. Sharing a Pinterest board dedicated to invitations will provide a great start. Have a clear idea of the style you want to minimize the stationer's guesswork.

2. Respond to the stationer’s emails within 24 hours. If you wait for a week to give feedback on a proof, then that will prolong the process.  

Some final thoughts: If you’ve made the decision to cut your guest list, then there may be a bright side. By purchasing fewer invitations, premium embellishments such as pocket folds, gate & petal cards, laser cut options, and more may now be accessible to you. Then you’ll have a premium wedding invitation that is a true keepsake from your wedding.